F.O.R. (Fear Of Rejection)

Why do we have it? From whence does it come? What does it entail, elements, and components? What can we do about it?

Why do we have it?

We have it because we are already “Rejected”. IE We fear what is “evident”, there already, preexisting. Our configuration, our innate makeup. Rejection in this life echoes our innate circumstances; IE As we experience rejection in this life….. We are then driven according to our indoctrination from infancy, relative to, as it impacts the innate Void. Our conditioning. But now you say….”Then why do we all not have it”. IE Why are some of us rash seemingly, and forge ahead unintimidated by a fear of rejection?

The answer is simple ma foi.


Yes, it is that simple. The answer is found in “Duality”.

Pro or con, all things can be measured, assessed by Pro or Con. Pro or Con will incite, affect everything. The aforesaid seems complicated but it isn’t.

What is simply meant here is that; All external circumstances, positive or negative are tempered by the innate configuration. Think of it as if the Void within decides based upon its limited voice how it will wind, end up as the fuel for these external occurrences.

Our primordial content states that we are a fallen creation. We forfeited the Life of God once had. And so there is a void, the “Void” where once His Life did reside within us.

Now think back, what were we talking about?

That the F.O.R. (fear of rejection) will be manifested out of our Voided State Dualistically. In a positive and a negative light. Yes. In my past posts, you might discover such statements as; “The Void is Mirrored by us in “Like and Unlike”….” You might look up my post on “the two kinds of people in the world”. Those being, the Obscurity Seeker and the Celebrity Seeker. Contrary to popular belief, they are both driven. While one is driven to Celebration, success, the other is driven to Obscurity, failure and the shadows of anonymity. And these two (compositions; C.S. and O.S.) were adopted according to our indoctrination. In upbringing. But there is no kaleidoscopic complexity here. Duality rules here. The Void is mirrored dualistically.

So in summary;

Due to Duality, one person will be affected by the innate Void to enact a representation of one who does not fear rejection, is seemingly unintimidated by it, yet is paradoxically driven by the innate Void to counter the presence of the Void in this fashion.

One becomes a “Void Guise”. You see, Void Guises are complicated and then again not.

So one will be such a one who appears to be afflicted by a Fear Of Rejection, while the other, cryptically while appearing not to fear rejection is driven by a F.O.R. to deny the F.O.R…

These two have merely served as vehicles of the Voided State within. IE Our Psyche upon having intuited the Voided presence chose to react this way or that way. Opposites. But this has been fashioned in this manner due to the fear inspired by the Voided State. Our Psyche makes this compact with the Void within.

The name of the game is “Self-Deception”. Convince self that “All’s well”, that in the meantime, our Psyche does not “intuit” the presence of the Void within. That instead, we have direction, have a purpose; IE something to take the place of the absence of the Life of God. Denial. 

Don’t sweat it, if you did not understand most of this, we will continue and attempt to streamline these thoughts next chapter. But be sure to come back for part two.    

If you miss it, the continuation of this topic, your deliverance might not be completed.

I can be reached at; turbans713@yahoo.com, and
https://kingrat1397@gmail.com, and at Facebook as Miguel Angel Oquendo. (Mickey, of Huachuca City, Az.)

Or you can contact these folk; Rev. Bob Schembre (Missouri), or Ministerio APG  (My Brother, Pastor Angel L. Oquendo, Spanish and English, Florida) both on Facebook.


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